As
your student prepares for their first-year of college, you might
find yourself wondering what you can do help them prepare for the year
ahead. Over the next couple of months you may want to offer your
student increased amounts of independence and responsibilities, and
provide them with more opportunities for them to make their own
decisions.
The months leading up to September are an
ideal time to communicate with your student. Good communication now
will set the foundation for the years ahead and helps create a forum
for what can sometimes be difficult conversations. Talk about your own
apprehensions and fears, as well as the things that you are looking
forward to. There are many topics which can be introduced.
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Academic
expectations: College is very different from high school. It is
common for students to experience larger classes, heavier work loads
and multiple demands.
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Family
expectations: Whether a student is living at home or away from home, it
is important to talk about what is expected. For students living at
home, topics may include "house rules" and how to offer your student
more independence and decision-making. When a student is living away
from home, topics may include visits, telephone calls and sharing of
information.
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Diversity:
Most campuses are more diverse (i.e. age, ethnicity, sexual
orientation, etc.) than many high schools. This is an excellent
opportunity for students to learn from their peers and expand their
global knowledge.
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Changing
relationships: Most students do not attend the same university as their
friends. Long distance friendships can begin to change as each person
continues to explore their values and refine their interpersonal skills.
